Adoption language is key because the words we use shape how we view and understand adoption. For generations, society has repeated specific phrases that carry negative weight, words that unintentionally create shame, misunderstanding, and stigma. Adoption has changed over the years, yet outdated language still lingers.
When someone is considering adoption, hearing old terms can influence their decision in harmful or uneducated ways. That’s why education matters. When people know the truth, they can make fully informed and honest decisions. Using respectful adoption language brings dignity and honor to everyone in the adoption triad: expectant parents, adoptive parents, and adoptees.
Common Examples of Adoption Language
- Negative: Give up your baby / Put up for adoption
Positive: Make an adoption plan - Negative: Real parents
Positive: Birth parents or First parents - Negative: Unwanted pregnancy
Positive: Unplanned pregnancy - Negative: She gave her baby away
Positive: She lovingly chose adoption for her baby - Negative: She didn’t want the baby
Positive: She wanted the best for her baby / She made a different choice - Negative: Adopted out
Positive: Placed for adoption
Why It Matters
Adoption language isn’t “one size fits all.” The goal is to use words that show respect, dignity, and honor rather than words that suggest shame or abandonment. Words can unintentionally wound expectant parents, but positive language reframes adoption as an act of love and choice.
Choosing positive adoption language affirms that adoption is not about “giving up.” It’s about choosing with love.
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